Making change happen

Making change happen

We live in what has been termed VUCA times: volatile, uncertain, complex and ambiguous. Certainly the past few years have seen the world turned upside down by a pandemic and now by a war that threatens peace in Europe. But given it was the Greek philosopher Heraclitus who said, ‘the only constant in life is change’, I rather suspect the pace and scale of change has always felt overwhelming.

As a leader knowing how to navigate and respond to change is therefore an essential skill, and one which is often part of the leadership courses I design and run for organisations. As a leadership and organisational coach enabling others to create and respond to change is my core business, so I thought it might be useful to share some of the tools I regularly use to help others understand, respond to and plan for change.

Sometimes change is forced on us, but there are also times when we want to make changes. We might want to tackle inequalities in society through our work, or creating other positive social changes. Or we might want to change some aspect of how our organisation works, maybe shifting to hybrid working or becoming more environmentally-sustainable. All of these scenarios are about creating change and these tools apply to internal and external change and are scalable from individual life changes to restructuring an organisation or creating social change. 

Is it worth the effort?

Change takes effort and resource. We often need to support of others to achieve change. So, before we start making a change it’s a good idea to be really clear for ourselves and with others about the ‘why’: the case for change. 

The Opportunity/Threat matrix offers a really simple format to think through the benefits of making a change, and the risks of not making it. 

You basically work through 2 questions – what are the opportunities if we do this, and the risks if we don’t – in both the short-term and the longer-term. It’s up to you to define what short/long-term horizons make sense for your situation, but be specific – e.g. in the next 12 months/ the next 5 years. 

It can be really helpful to involve others in this exercise. This broadens the perspectives involved in the analysis but also enables those with a stake in the decision to fully understand the arguments around opportunity and risk.

You might decide, after completing this exercise, there isn’t a strong enough case to press ahead with the change – but if there is then the following tools can help the process go more smoothly.

How to make change happen or ‘tip’?

This simple ‘equation’ sums up the key considerations at play when we’re trying to make change happen. I came across this version at Henley Business School on a change leadership course and it’s based on the Gleicher modelled, popularised by Beckhard-Harris, with one important variation.

This model identifies 4 key ingredients that need to be in present for change to happen, and one factor (cost) which inhibits change. These ‘ingredients’ are outlined in the illustration below:

Change ‘tips’ when the other ingredients outweigh the cost.

This model I’ve used countless times since encountering it at Henley, includes ‘capacity’ which the original Gleicher version lacks. 

In my experience capacity is often the missing ingredient in the cultural/ creative sector – we lack the time or resource to invest in enabling change. Technically this is what is referred to as ‘development capital’; resource which we can use to invest in doing things differently, experimenting, doing training, buying new hardware and software. Too often our budgets and diaries are over-committed and we lack this space and resource.

I use the equation to assess the likelihood of success of change and identify where there might be blocks so we can identify what actions are needed if change is to happen. It can be used at the planning stage, and during review of how things are going. 

How to respond to unwanted change?

You may well have heard or seen ‘the change curve’? There are actually two curves, but the one most of us know is also known as the grief curve, as it emerged from the work of psychologist Elisabeth Kubler-Ross looking at the main stages of bereavement. However, it has also long been applied more generally to understand how we respond to external changes we perceive as negative.

I find model this helpful for a number of reasons. It can be helpful to be aware of these psychological reactions so we can be sensitive with others and self-aware. For example, it can be unrealistic to expect people to be able to quickly process ‘bad news’ and adapt, it might take some time. 

And we need to be cautious not to allow ourselves – or others – to spend too much time in the ‘bargaining’ stage. Bargaining is when we offer a solution to the change which doesn’t take full account of the situation: re-arranging deckchairs on the Titanic. Thinking we’re doing ‘our bit’ for climate change by buying a re-usable coffee cup but not making the bigger changes to our lifestyles really needed.

We might need to do a little bargaining before we’re ready to accept the full reality of the situation (the ‘depression’ stage). But we want to avoid spending too much time bargaining if we want to adapt constructively to negative change and reach the stages of testing and acceptance. 

The other thing I like about the Kubler-Ross change curve is that it sits well with my experience of what makes me feel better when Shit Happens (another technical term I learned on that course at Henley). Working out what I can do to be helpful or to improve things, where I do have some agency, usually helps me feel a lot better.

How to keep the momentum going?

I promised you two change curves. The second applies to changes we want, hence it’s name ‘the positive change curve’. What is shows is that – basically – our enthusiasm wanes over time. We start off ill-informed about what exactly the change will involve and how long it will take, and as we discover more about the reality our optimism is likely to drop. If the gap between expectation and reality is too big we might decide to quit. But also we might form a more realistic but still positive view of the change and move into the ‘Informed Optimism’ stage.

How is this model helpful? It reminds us that we need to attend to morale along the way; to celebrate our successes, give ourselves some ‘easy wins’ early on etc. Simply making time to review, constructively, and acknowledge what’s been done and achieved can be enormously helpful – and the simple set of questions are typical of the kind I use with individuals and teams to this end.

Also, the smaller the gap between expectations and reality the fewer morale issues lay ahead. So the positive change curves reminds us of the importance of realistic plans.

How to involve/ engage others?

Last but not least, this final tool offers a simple framework (and worked example) of how to explain what you’re trying to do, and why, to others so you can engage them. Whether you want other people to do things differently as part of the change, to generate ideas about what needs to change or simply to support or approve of the change you’re planning – you’ll need to be able to clearly and simply explain what you’re doing, why, how and what you need from them.

These 4 simple questions are a template for those communications – whether they take place via face-to-face informal conversations, a formal presentation or written formats (or all three).

I hope there’s something in these tools that’s useful for you. If you agree with Heraclitus that ‘the only constant in life is change’, then learning a few new techniques about how to master change is time well spent.

Looking for a supportive peer-learning space to develop your thinking and confidence?

Looking for a supportive peer-learning space to develop your thinking and confidence?

What is Action Learning?

Virtual Action Learning offers a supportive, structured peer-learning environment. Using simple group coaching techniques, Action Learning enables fresh thinking and builds confidence. It involves a small group of peers coming together regularly, for a finite period of time initially, to support one another to work through their work challenges and reflect on their learning: typically around 6 people, for 6 months every 4-6 weeks. 

What’s on offer?

Starting in September I’ll be offering an opportunity to join a new virtual set. Sessions are facilitated by me – Claire Antrobus. I’ve been involved with Action Learning as a trained facilitator and participant for over a decade. No previous experience is necessary – in our first session we’ll cover what Action Learning is, how it works and you’ll have an opportunity to try it out and meet the rest of the group. 

If, after the first session, you decide Action Learning is not for you then you are under no obligation to continue.

Participants will be asked to sign up to the principles of action learning, which include working in a non-judgmental, supportive and confidential learning space, and to attend a minimum of five of the six sessions. In return we offer you:

  • Access to a regular safe and creative space to think through your own challenges in a reflective and solutions-focussed way
  • Opportunity to practice and develop your reflective learning techniques and coaching skills to improve your own and others’ performance
  • A supportive community of practice working together over a six-month period
  • Support from a highly experienced Action Learning facilitator/ trainer, including advice and resources about how to set up your own set after this series.
  • Pay What You Can rate for anyone earning less than UK average wage (or self-employed equivalent).

I’m interested – what’s involved?

  • A three-hour introductory training session covering the foundations of Action Learning and opportunity to practice the core skills of active listening and open questions.
  • Four x 2hr follow-on monthly Action Learning sessions via Zoom.
  • A final 3hr review session, covering self-facilitation to enable to group to continue self-supporting after this initial period.
  • A PDF Action Learning handbook to support you during and beyond the sessions.

By the end of the sixth session the group can decide to complete its work together – or may choose to carry on independently, self-facilitating using the skills and experience you will have developed.

Previous sets have included people with a wide range of experience from across the cultural and wider non-profit sector including self-employed coaches, artists, CEO/ senior leaders from arts organisations, creative consultants and producers and those working inside organisations in a variety of roles.

What have previous participants said about it?

Feedback from recent AL participants includes:

‘It’s a great way of creating space for your own reflection with a group of supportive peers. But there are also huge benefits in developing your active listening skills and the ability to ask questions that help unlock insights for others in the group.’

‘I simply can’t recommend it enough. It was a rare opportunity to step off the treadmill to reflect, learn, listen and share challenges and ideas with a fantastic group of people. The structure of the Action Learning Set creates a space for exploration, idea generation and action. The facilitation of the group ensured that there was a really, warm, caring and human touch – where people felt able to share challenges with authenticity, vulnerability and generosity. It has really developed my active listening skills and given my working practices a reboot. Brilliantly organised, robustly managed and a great take away handbook that I’m referring to regularly.’

‘It’s a brilliant chance to connect with peers you might not otherwise meet, to practice the skills of group action learning, to have your challenges heard and to help others, with a concrete accountability framework that’s also easy to stick to and access.’

‘I joined the action learning set at a point of transition in my career and immediately found a supportive group of individuals willing to share their wealth of experience. During busy times attending the session felt like coming up for air.’

Action Learning is also very cost effective and I include training as part of the sessions so you’ll be equipped to run your own sets after this initial period, should you wish to continue. In 2021 I hosted two new sets, both of which have continued to self-facilitate and now function independently.

When recent studies have shown reflective practice – at the heart of Action Learning – can improve performance by 23%, the real question is how can you afford not to do it?

How do I find out more and what are the dates and costs?

To book your place or discuss whether this is for you just get in touch claire@claireantrobus.com

Intro session: 2-5pm Thursday 8 Sep

Set meeting dates: 3-5pm on Thursdays 13 Oct, 17 Nov, 15 Dec and 19 Jan 

Final: session 2-5pm, 9 Feb

Cost: £175 (or PWYC for those on less than UK average wage or self-employed equivalent)

Making feedback more fruitful

Making feedback more fruitful

Feedback can often feel like a spoonful of cod liver oil – you know it’s meant to be good for you, but we don’t relish it. And it can be hard to hear when you mainly hear about the things that are going wrong. You might wish someone also made time to tell you what’s going right? You’re doing your best after all….

And how often are you giving feedback to others? Research tells us that receiving regular (weekly), useful, feedback is one of the key factors for working at our best. Yet I often find people receive far less than this. 

Giving useful feedback is a key responsibility of all managers and an important skill for those of us who work with others. Below I’ve outlined a few principles about what good feedback looks like from research into productivity and staff performance. I hope these are useful whether you’re wanting more useful feedback for yourself or wanting to improve the feedback you offer others.

Let’s focus on useful feedback: rather than ‘negative’ and ‘positive’ feedback

Feedback should be useful and constructive – whether it concerns what is working well or what is not working well. ‘Feedback’ is simply information which enables a system or process to adapt. If ‘feedback’ doesn’t enable learning and improvement then it isn’t feedback – it’s criticism (generalised negative comments) or praise (generalised positive comments). Criticism has no place in the respectful and productive workplace. Praise is less useful than feedback, and arguably also has its downsides.

But we need to get the ratio right: we need to hear five times as much about what works than what doesn’t. Feedback about what works is the fertiliser prepares the ground to receive the tougher-to-hear feedback about problems. So don’t neglect the fertiliser!

Ensure it’s useful

How can you know what feedback is useful? Simply ask – would you value some feedback? What would you like feedback on? What format works best for you – written, a chat after the event etc?

Providing useful feedback takes time: make sure you’re using your time well by focussing on the areas where feedback is most helpful. If someone already knows there’s a problem with X, it’s pointless or maybe even demotivating to be told it again. If they’ve asked for you to look at Y, they are more likely to be receptive to what you have to say about that. 

BOOST performance with feedback

There are a few similar models around, but I really like this BOOST model from Andi Roberts (which I’ve slightly adapted) not least as it starts with balanced: reminding us of the ratio in favour of what works. The other aspect of balanced is that we invite feedback as well as offering it. If you’re in a position of power then others might take some encouragement to offer feedback. You can help by avoiding being defensive and showing you’re listening by acting on what you hear. 

Ownership is important too – we might avoid speaking directly for fear of offending but being clear is critical. And this cuts both ways – we need to feel feedback is sincere, so that’s going to require us to take time to observe and notice what others are doing well so we can let them know directly.

Providing useful feedback is an essential skill for any manager, and we cover feedback skills and practice on a number of the courses I run in-house for organisations and as open online courses. Get in touch if you’re interested in finding out more about training. And let me know how you get on with the BOOST model. 

Looking for a supportive peer-learning space to develop your thinking and confidence?

Be more curious

Things not going quite right with someone you’re working with but you’re not sure how to broach the topic? Worried about upsetting someone, but feeling increasingly frustrated by their behaviour or assumptions? 

Too often we allow things that are not working to continue unchecked for fear of damaging our professional relationships – and yet the longer we leave things, the harder they are to resolve.

Conversations that feel hard to initiate are sometimes referred to as ‘difficult conversations’ but they need not be hard. With a shift in how we’re looking at them and a couple of simple tools we can get things back on track. And if we practise having these conversations more often, before issues get harder to discuss, then we can save ourselves a lot of time and trouble.

Stop calling them ‘difficult’ conversations

If we go into a conversation thinking it’s going to be difficult then it’s often a self-fulfilling prophecy. Instead of assuming the other person is in the wrong, and that this will be awkward to discuss, it’s far easier and successful if we approach these as curious conversations.

Rather than assuming the other person is at fault, try staying curious about what the problem is and how it could work better.

Stay ‘curious’

There’s lots of great guidance about effective communication, and I’m a big fan of Marshall Rosenberg’s Non Violent Communication approach from which I’ve extracted some of the key principles into a mnemonic that spells CURIOUS:

Notice context comes first. If we want to resolve the issue we need to avoid the other feeling attacked or blamed, or they are likely to become defensive. If we’ve demonstrated a constructive intention clearly at the outset a (e.g. ‘I’m concerned how X went and I’d like us to think about how we can ensure next time there’s a Plan B in place. When is a good time for you to discuss this?’) we’re less likely to trigger a defensive reaction.

Also don’t skip owning your response. Too often we feel awkwardness about clearly outlining what the issue is for us for fear of upsetting someone. But stating clearly what the impact was on you – what need wasn’t met and how you felt – will help the other understand why this issue is important to you. Without this information there is a risk they might not fully understand why their behaviour is a problem for you and be less willing to change. 

Prepare a 3-step conversation

It is useful to think through carefully what we want to say about the impact of the issue on us, and what we’d like to request to be different in future so we can be really clear and avoid inflammatory language that might cloud the issue.

I suggest thinking about a conversation in 3 stages can be helpful:

I don’t recommend that you script the conversation in advance, but a few notes about the key points you want to make and questions you might ask to open up and explore can be helpful.

And don’t forget to wrap up the conversation with some actions: what are you agreeing to? What will each of you do or do differently in future? How and when might you check in that things are working better?

I hope you find these tools useful – if you try them out let me know how you get on. And feel free to share them, please just acknowledge the source and don’t seek to profit from them. Interested to find out more? I run a couple of courses which cover communication skills and styles, difficult conversations and how to give useful feedback – get in touch if you’d like to find out more.

How to get best results from employer-funded coaching

How to get best results from employer-funded coaching

When I first started working with coaching clients funded via their employers, I usually asked the employer to have a very light touch involvement. But increasingly I’m realising the importance and benefit of sometimes inviting the line-manager to be part of the conversations, with clear boundaries. I’ve been writing some guidance for employers and coachees about the options for employer-funded coaching. I’m sharing this below in case it’s useful but also I’d love to hear any other thoughts about ways to involve line-managers or your feedback about things that could be clearer or that are missing from this guidance:

Coaching is a relationship that enables learning, reflection and change. It’s a self-directed process, with the coachee responsible for defining their own version of success and identifying how best they can approach achieving this, with support from a coach.

Practically speaking, coaching takes the form of a series of confidential 1-2-1 conversations. The overall change desired is broken down into a smaller goals, tackled one at a time. Typically individual sessions last 60 mins during which the coachee identifies actions that are then tested between sessions and reviewed in follow-up sessions. The coach’s role is to create a safe and brave space for the coachee to do their best thinking, helping them find fresh insights and options through a combination of support and challenge.  For example, helping the coachee notice their assumptions and any self-limiting beliefs that might be clouding their thinking.

Coaching is about enabling the coachee to find their own best solutions from within, rather than advising or guiding the coachee, and is a great way to build confidence and commitment by tapping into the core values and strengths of the individual.

How is employer-funded coaching different?

Employer-funded coaching involves three parties: a coachee, a client organisation and a coach. 

Unlike regular coaching where the coachee and coach have a 1-2-1 relationship, employer-funded coaching recognises the interests of the client and a three-way contract is agreed. This covers any specific goals or areas the client wishes to see covered via coaching and clarified how the client will be kept informed of the outcomes of the work. 

How can we contract well with three parties involved?

Given confidentiality and clear boundaries are important for enabling trust in coaching it is critical that all parties are clear about and comfortable with the arrangements.

If coaching was proposed to the coachee there may be concerns as to the employer’s intention or perception of their performance that could undermine effective coaching. Reassurance about confidentiality and the principles of coaching can help, although it’s often useful for facilitate a short 3-way conversation in the first session to clarify the context and any expectations or concerns. Typically, I speak with both client and coachee individually then both parties together.

An employer has a duty to ensure their resources are well spent so can reasonably expect to evaluate coaching and will require a level of accountability. It’s important that the coach understands in advance what information might be asked of them so that we can seek permission from the coachee and set appropriate boundaries.

And given a client often has a long-term interest in, and responsibility for, the support and development of the coachee it can be really beneficial to involve the line-manager in shaping and reviewing the coaching. Not all coachees will be comfortable with this involvement, or feel it is necessary, so the question of how best to involve the client needs to be explored as part of the contracting process.

What are the models for employer-funded coaching?

There are a two main models for working with client and coachee – these are described below:

Light touch

There are no limits on what the coaching can be used for. The client might suggest to the coachee how coaching might be used, but ultimately leaves it to them to decide.  

Employer feedback and reporting is limited to the number of sessions delivered. In some cases, usually leadership programmes, some basic evaluation information might be requested – this is agreed in advance with coach and coachee.

The line-manger can invite the coachee to share what they are gaining from coaching and offer support, but recognises it is a confidential process. 

The coachee is encouraged, where they feel comfortable, to share what they are focussing on and learning via coaching with their line-manager, but this is voluntary.

Partnership model

The client has specific expectations from the coaching. These are communicated directly to the coachee prior to coaching, and/or explored with the coach and coachee together as part of the introductory session. The coach can help ensure these requirements have been clearly articulated so the coachee is clear what is expected. The coach will also negotiate – at the outset – how best progress is reported to the line-manager, with the preference being for this to happen directly and outside of coaching sessions if the coachee feels comfortable doing this. Alternately, the coach can facilitate reporting back to the line-

manager as part of a session, usually at the end of a series of sessions. Involvement of the line-manager aims to offer additional support to the coachee in their development either via the provision of feedback on areas of development or via mentoring and guidance outwith and beyond the coaching series.

Tips for coachees

  • It is your line-manager’s role to support your development. They may have useful feedback about your performance of development that could be useful to you. Equally they might be able to offer support during or after the coaching. You might find it helpful to talk to them about your coaching as part of your regular supervisions or catch up meetings.
  • Formally involving line-managers in the first and final sessions can be really helpful – but it is always your choice whether this feels comfortable or useful and it is fine to say ‘no thanks’.
  • If there is anything you are unclear about in terms of how the coaching. can be used or what will be shared with your employer please ask.
  • If there is anything you are worried about in terms of confidentiality, context or scope for our work together please let your coach know at any time in the process.

Tips for line-managers

  • If there is something you want the coachee to improve or focus on then you will need to let them know this directly and clearly – the coach won’t act as go-between as this could lead to misunderstandings and erode trust. 
  • We can however help you carefully frame any feedback you want the coachee to have so it is clear and useful. 
  • Remember that coaching is based on trust and clear boundaries. It’s understandable to want to know what is being discussed and to support the coachee, but important to respect those boundaries and invite the coachee to share only if they wish and when they are ready. 
  • As part of the final session the coachee will be encouraged to identify what has been most useful, what they have learned and what support they might need going forwards. Whether or not you’ve been formally invited to the final session it can be helpful to ask the coachee if there’s any further support they need or you could offer after that session.

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